Many people have taken online dating to a new place: Facebook. There are millions of users and someone will certainly be right for you.

Do you know the secrets of asking a girl out on Facebook? It may seem like an issue of simply sending her a friendship request and a message but in order to be successful, you will have to do more than just that.

Befriend Her for a Reason

The most annoying thing you can do on Facebook is sending a friendship request that contains whatsoever no personalized message explaining your intentions. From the very beginning, you are getting chances equal to zero.

When you befriend someone on Facebook you will have to introduce yourself, just like you would do in real life. People are very likely to ignore you, unless you give them a good reason not to.

Beautiful girls get dozens of friendship request. You stand no chance of appearing different and more interesting from the rest of the crowd if you are unwilling to personalize your friendship request. It will only take you a minute to write a couple of sentences about yourself and why you are interested in a friendship.

Establish Some Form of Virtual Relationship

Just like in the case of a real life relationship, a girl will have to find out more about you before she decides whether she wants to go out with you. Asking a girl out on Facebook should follow the same logic of events.

Establish some form of virtual relationship. Exchange messages or chat with each other. Let her go through your photos just to make sure you are a regular guy.

If you want to be successful in the realm of Facebook dating, you have to provide authentic information about yourself. Using Photoshop on your photos sounds like a fun option to enhance your appearance but it is very wrong.

She needs to have a clear idea about who you are. Otherwise, you risk disappointing her tremendously, once she agrees to go out with you. Show her that you have nothing to hide.

Take Your Time

There is no need to rush it. In fact, a Facebook flirt can be as exciting as the real thing. I would usually wait at least a month before asking a girl out. She will be feeling more secure and confident by this time and the chances of her saying yes increase.

Take it slow. Chat to each other. The next step will be taking it to a telephone conversation. Getting to know someone in this indirect way may be a very intimate and fun opportunity. People tend to open up in the online world, sharing a lot of private information that will otherwise remain concealed.

Ask Her Out Properly

You have established an online relationship with this girl and you are past the acquaintance phase. The next step will be asking her out.

You will find out that asking a girl out on Facebook is as nerve wracking, as doing it in the real world. Chances are you will be feeling like a teenager who is about to go on a date for the first time. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this kind of excitement. It is only going to make the moment even more special.

Ask her out properly. A date is not the logical conclusion of a Facebook relationship. She may be simply looking for someone to talk to rather than someone to date. If you want to find out whether she is interested, you will have to ask her out properly.

Use Facebook to your advantage once again. Compose a letter that sounds romantic and sweet. Tell her how special she is and how much you cherish the moments you spent together. Then ask whether she would like to share a face to face meeting with you.

Most often, girls that are already having some form of relationship with you will be willing to meet you in person. Still, you should be prepared for the possibility of failure. There is nothing to worry about, even if she turns you down. Facebook has thousands of female members that are just right for you. Take your time and you will certainly get to know that special girl.

Trying to pick up girls in a club may seem like a very threatening endeavor in the very beginning. It is natural for people to fear rejection. Fear, however, is a very bad advisor and it may prevent you from having a blast. Do you want to learn how to pick up girls in a club? The secret is letting go of your insecurities.

Find Out if She is Interested

The first lesson towards learning how to pick up girls in a club is finding out whether the woman you are interested in intrigued about the opportunity of getting to know you. Uncovering her intentions and preferences is possible before you have even started talking to her.

Finding out whether she is interested will save you from the embarrassment of getting rejected.

The first thing to do is to establish eye contact. Is she looking back at you? Is she smiling? The smile is the biggest affirmation you can receive. A woman that is avoiding eye contact and that is even openly turning her back towards you is clearly not in flirtatious mood.

The Power of Silent Communication

Body language can be the next step before you approach the lady. Learning how to captivate her attention is very important if you are interested in how to pick up girls in a club. Actually, the use of body language is the one thing that builds up excitement and that makes both of you impatient to start talking.

Looking at each other, as already mentioned, is very important. By looking I am not referring to staring at her as if she is coming from another planet. You should appear interested and attracted. This appearance is very different from the one of a stalker.

Next, you can smile at her. She will probably smile back, giving you an indication that she wants the flirt to continue. If you are good at it, you can even win a sensual dance with a girl without talking to her. Maintaining some degree of mystery is going to tickle her curiosity much more than laying all of your cars on the table.

A “No” is Non-Negotiable

Understand that a “no” is a “no” and it should never be pushed. If she is unwilling to talk to you, there is no way on Earth to convince her in the opposite. You are more likely to annoy her and to have a truly bad evening.

How to pick up girls in a club? Know who to talk to and how to talk to her. This does not mean you should be limiting your opportunities. There is no such thing as a woman that is out of your league. There is simply a woman that has no interest in you. Bothering such a lady is certainly not the way that a gentleman behaves.

Look around you. There are so many other girls in the club and chances are that at least several of them have noticed you. Instead of obsessing over one opportunity, you should turn to another great chance to have a good time.

Learn to Have Fun

Picking up girls in a club should be fun rather than a frightening activity that is causing you to sweat, forget your lines and experience stage fright similar to the one connected to delivering an important corporate presentation.

She will know that you are uneasy. Negative emotions will add little to your charisma. You have to let go. The worst thing that can happen is getting a “no.” This answer has not killed anyone yet. It is ok to get rejected. Wave your hand and look for another chance.

Anyone can learn how to pick up girls in a club. You can be just an average guy and you can get noticed. Be yourself and silence your fears. Picking up a girl should also be a chance to have fun rather than a primary goal and a mission that you have been planning for weeks. Too much thought sucks the fun out of it.

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If you’re wondering what it really takes to flirt with a woman and then get her sexually attracted to you, then read this.

Don’t you just hate it when you read an article about dating and it tells you “just flirt with her” or “just tease her”, but then don’t give you any guidance on how to do it?

I mean, if you knew how to flirt and tease her already, would you need to read that stupid article in the first place?

Hell no!

So let me ask you a question.

Why do you flirt?

The reason why I’m asking you WHY you flirt is because of this.

You want to make sure you get ONE result out of the interaction.

What’s the result you want?

To get her SEXUALLY ATTRATED to you so much so that she’ll take her panties off for you.

I see lot of guys who miss this point and end up teasing the woman they are interested into crying or even worse – they don’t tease at all and end up in the FRIENDS ZONE.

So let me break down the art of flirting when it comes to seduction for you.

What Your Flirting NEEDS To Do For You

There are five essential things that your flirting must achieve. Otherwise you’re going to end up either pissing her off, come across too strong or just get no response. So to make sure you don’t end up like a loser who TRIES to flirt but fails, make your flirting interaction do these things for you:

1. Test the waters – many guys are totally oblivious to the clues of female attraction that a woman gives off. I admit, I’m used to be pretty blind too. But what I discovered was with the correct usage of flirting you can actually gauge her interest level in you. Instead of wondering “hmm… I wonder how much she likes me”, you use the way your flirt as a tool to measure her interest.

It’s quite simple really. If you flirt with her and she in any way shape or form responds in a positive way (that is she doesn’t reject you and kind of accepts you) then you have a chance!

If you flirt with her and she pretends she doesn’t notice, then you know she’s not interested at all.

2. Build attraction – suffice to say, the purpose of flirting is to get her to like you. If you’re a guy who ends up teasing a woman so much that she takes it personally, then you’re a bad flirt and totally ruining it for the other guys out there.

3. Make her comfortable – a side note to build attraction is the fact that she needs to feel comfortable and safe in your presence. If you flirt with her properly, you’re going to end up giving her the impression that you have known her forever. I mean, think about it, only people she is close with will tease and playfully banter with her. So if you mimic this behavior, she’ll feel as if she knows you more than she actually does.

4. Amplify sexual attraction – when you flirt with a woman you want to make sure that you not only build attraction, but you want to AMPLIFY whatever attraction to has for you. So before you flirt with her she might be slightly interested in you, after you flirt with her she’ll be interested so much that she’ll be wanting to take off her panties.

5. Avoid the friends zone – this is pretty obvious, but if you think your flirting and you still end up in the friends zone then obviously you’re not giving her the right signals during your interaction. If you flirt and tease women correctly, there’s no way you can just end up in the “friends zone”, you might end up in the “friends for now zone” but never the dreaded “friends zone”. If you really want other methods that will make sure you avoid the friends zone for good, check out the Supernatural Seduction System where I teach you step by step what to do. I have a complete module dedicated to this. Why don’t you have a look at the Supernatural Seduction System. Click here to try out the Supernatural Seduction System for $1.

How To Actually Flirt – What To Do

Flirting with women, although sounds easy enough, is actually pretty hard to do correctly. I have outlined seven things that I do myself personality to get insane results. However, using each element by itself the right way will do things to incredibly improve your attractiveness tenfold.

1. Role reversal – a lot of guys are too serious when it comes to flirting with women, so a common question is “how do I become funny and playful?”. There are plenty of men out there who find it difficult to be naturally funny or humorous. So I’m not just going to tell you “be funny”. No, what I’ve found to work wonders when attracting girls is to reverse the roles of the interaction.

Steal her lines and make her the pursuer.

Women are always saying things that make us men look like:
a. A sexual predator
b. Only wanting her for sex
c. Less important than she is

How do women do it?

They say things like:

“I’m not easy you know” or “you got to do more than that to impress me”

That totally blows off our game and makes it hard for a man to recover from a situation like that.

So what I have found to be profoundly effective is to just reverse the roles and make her the pursuer. Then constantly accuse her of trying to get me into bed.

Not only does this create a hilarious dynamic naturally, but you’ll never be lost for “funny punch lines” or need to know how to be sarcastic. All you need to do is say something like:

“are you trying to get me into bed” or “stop making me think of dirty things, you’re totally corrupted”.

As you can see, once you take on the role of a hot woman and she’s the one that suddenly is trying to get YOU into bed, it’s not only silly but funny. However, at the same time you demonstrate to her that you’re a confident man and that you’re clearly taking this interaction sexually. Nice!

2. Set a theme – human interaction is a funny thing. There are times when it’s not acceptable to do something as “you” but when you claim your actions were not because of your free will (maybe someone forced you or because of some festival or game) then you can suddenly do that thing you always wanted to do, but then get away with it.

For example, girls like to dress up sexy and look damn slutty. But most of the time they do not like to admit it. However, as long as they have an excuse to show off their assets their only too willing to do so – as long as they have a good excuse. This explains why women dress like to total whores during Halloween, and that’s why it’s totally awesome.

The Halloween theme suddenly makes it ok for girls to dress up like sex starved skanks and not be judged by others. Perfect huh?

So this is what you can also when you flirt.

Create a scenario where you can say things to her and disguise your thoughts as part of the role play. For example:

“Ok since you’re so helpful, why don’t you become my Personal Assistant. You can help me with daily things like bringing me coffee, as long as you wear a decent length skirt and try not to show too much leg, then it’s ok”.

As you can see, you’re incorporating both a theme into the role play and also a role reversal where you make it out again as if she’s the one trying to seduce you. This works like a charm.

3. Nicknames – by giving her a nickname you create a private world and language that only the two of you would understand. This creates rapport and a sense of comfort with you much more rapidly than referring to her using her name, because this is much more personal.

I like giving girls nicknames like:
a. The grub
b. Dirty chick
c. Pervert girl

Anything that implies she’s dirty. This has a minor sub theme that I can work with and tease her that she’s dirty minded and corrupted and always trying to get into my pants.

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4. Be mercilessly playful – To be a good flirt, you have to know how to let loose and have fun. The easiest way to be “fun and entertaining” is to be playful and just tease her. Don’t take anything she has to say seriously and always make what she says as a joke to further mock her for fun. However, there is a caveat. Make sure you are playful when the time is right. If she’s telling you that her mother passed away that is no time to be playful. I think that’s pretty self evident, but I just had to mention it.

5. Sexual innuendo – to sexually charge the interaction and make sure you never end up in the friends zone, what you need to do is imply sex, but then get her to talk about it, then you immediately jump in and accuse her of bringing up the topic of sex and trying to corrupt you. This is sneaky and has never failed to work for me.

This is great because you set little traps for her to fall in and it’s playful and funny for the both of you.

Try this:

You: “can you get out of my mind? You’re making me think of interesting things”

As you can see “interesting things” can be interpreted sexually or non sexually.

Regardless of what she says in response you have laid a trap for her.

Her: *any response*

You: “clearly, you’re soooo corrupted! Get your mind out of the gutter! I’m not going to sleep with you ok?”

As you can see, after that you’re free to talk about sex, but then accuse her of bringing up the topic.

6. Purposely misinterpret what she’s saying – I like this one a lot because it’s just so hilarious for me personally. What you need to do is misinterpret what she says and make it a compliment for yourself. Here’s an example:

Her: “Wow, Cindy is so pretty”

You: “Thanks, but I’m not called Cindy”

This not only shows that you’re supremely confident, it shows her that you’re joking around with her and making you the center of attention. This makes you stand out.

7. Be way too innocent – One more trick I like to use during my conversations with women is act way too innocent. This is another way of being funny and entertaining without needing to pull off jokes. Here’s an example:

Her: “I can’t believe that guy just slept with my friend and dumped her!”

You:” I wish I knew what that feeling would be like – I’m still a virgin and I blush when I talk to girls, see I’m blushing right now”

Obviously she’s not going to take you seriously when you say “I’m still a virgin” because what you SAY is totally different than what you DO. Your body language and demeanor around her is the playful and fun guy with confidence. Guys like this get laid. Girls know it, so she’s just going to laugh and think you’re joking when you claim you’ve never had sex.

If you apply the 7 principles of being a great tease I just told you about, you’re going to have absolutely no problem getting in the pants of the women that you’re after.

Why?

Because you’re being a massively attractive, confident guy that makes her laugh each time she talks to you!

Dude, I want to hang out with you too!

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What She’ll Feel After You Flirt With Her

These are the emotions that she’s going to feel after being in your presence if you pull off what I just told you to do:

1. You’re a sexual being – you constantly mention sex, but you don’t talk about having sex with her. So this makes her know that you’re a sexual being, so you’re making sure you don’t end up in the friends zone and you’re much more potentially. In other words, you’re just a sexually confident man who’s not a creepy pervert.

2. You like her but not that much – by accusing her of trying to seduce you, you let her know that you like her. BUT you don’t need to say anything supplicating or lame that will make you weak. So you’re implying to her “yeah I like you, but there are other girls around too” by being the alpha male and always flirting with her.

3. You take away her sexual power – let’s face it, hot women have more power over men because we’re afraid that she’s going to use her sexiness against us (in some way shape or form). If you take away her sexual power, by pretending you’re the hot chick and she’s in the position of the pursuer . She’s not going to know how to deal with a man like you because she can’t resort to her normal methods of sexual control over the men around her – because we’re doing it to her!

So what’s the final result?

You’re going to be that guy that she has no idea how to deal with, but you’re funny, sexual and playfully confident. This in turn will make you a chick magnet and you’ll be able to literally tease and flirt her panties off into bed with you.

How great is that?

You’ll never end up in the friends zone ever again!

So make sure you think of me when hot , sexy and attractive women suddenly surround you and want to throw their panties at you.

Good luck!

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Make the girl attracted through comfort by being comfortable with yourself

Many girls are simply not comfortable with who they are. Whether they are hot or ugly in your eyes, it is likely that the girl has something about herself that she isn’t comfortable with. Maybe she has small eyes, small boobs, large fingers or some other characteristic that you likely hadn’t even noticed or cared about. Just about all girls are attracted to guys who are comfortable with who they are physically and mentally. By taking the steps to show your comfort in yourself, you will likely be on a higher footing than 99% of all girls. However, if you fret about your own appearance or your own problems, you will be seen as just another one of the girls and will lose a lot of the attraction that you could have had by simply being comfortable with yourself.

Attract the girl through emotions rather than through appearance

Most of us are not male supermodels. This is actually a good thing. Unlike men, women care about a lot more than appearance when they become attracted to a man. In fact, men that are too attractive might actually turn off women. The psychology behind this is that men that are overly attractive will make a girl feel subconscious about her own appearance with nature dictating that the girl should be the attractive one in the relationship. No matter if you consider yourself a 10/10 or a 5/10 on the looks scale, it should make no difference as long as you present yourself well. Instead of trying to impress a girl with your looks, get to her through your actions and your discussions. A man who is confident with himself, is confident in speaking with women, and confident in discussing about and leading conversations to sex knows how to attract women far better than a man who simply looks good in tight shirts.

Lead to attraction

if you like a girl, make her start to think of you the way you want her to think of you. If you want to have sex with her, start planting the seeds in her mind about you two having sex. You can do this through words or through actions. If you touch her arm and she responds well to it, you can touch her back. If she responds well to you touching her back, you can touch her face. If she responds well to you touching her face, you can go for a kiss, if she responds well to you kissing, lead her to sex. Take this is far as you like. If you are looking for sex, make sure that the girl sees you as a sexual risk. If your discussions with her while are about bingo and the national debt, you won’t be seen as a sexual man. However, if your conversations with the girl are directly about sex, it will only be natural for the girl to start imagining you as someone who she could legitimately have sex with. This will build attraction as she sees this becoming more and more of a reality.

As you look to build attraction and a woman, understand that the process needs to take place in the woman’s head. Make the woman see you as a sexual man and it will be hard for her not to be attracted to you.

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Find out where girls you like are

Do you like the nerdy girls? Athletic girls? Club girls? College girls? Fat girls? No matter what type of girls you like the most, one simple question will help you figure out where to meet the girls – “if I was a ___ girl, where would I hang out?”. Let’s take athletic girls is an example. If you like girls that are athletic, you will need to go to a place where these girls will be. Join a coed sports team or club, go to the gym and take a spinning class or take up yoga. By doing this, you will put yourself in a position to surround yourself and get to know the types of girls that you are most attracted to.

Tell a girl you like her

No, I don’t suggest you go up to a girl and say “I like you”. This will not work. Instead, you need to subtly let the girl know that you are interested in her. As a man, it is your responsibility to make the first move on a girl. Instead of saying “I like you”, you can say “let’s go out tomorrow” or start with “give me your phone number”. Come up with an excuse for the meeting or the phone number to make it more comfortable for the girl. Don’t worry, she will understand your interest. If you receive interest from her, you know that the game is on and it is up to you to progress the relationship further.

Get the girl attracted to you

Now that you have an excuse to meet the girl, you need to get the girl attracted to you. This is where being honest with the girl and being a man about it is important. If the girl has decided to go out with you, it shows that she has interest in you. It is then up to you to take the next step. Depending on your personality, think of some way to attempt to kiss the girl. If you are a fun-loving person, you can make a game out of this. If you are more of a tough guy, you can pin her against the wall and go for a kiss.

Approach the kiss in whatever way it fits your personality best. Even if she rejects your kiss, don’t worry — you have done what you were supposed to do. If the girl runs away in fear or never responds to you again, you will know that the relationship was simply not meant to be and it would have never worked out in the first place no matter how you approach the situation. If the girl rejects your kiss and stays with you with a smile on her face, it means that she wants you to try again at a later time. Once a girl kisses you on a date, you are well on your way to turning her into your girlfriend (or at least a sexual partner).

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Be a man

Being a man doesn’t mean taking steroids or flashing a lot of money. Instead, being a man means being in control of your life. You will want to have direction in your life that you are aiming for that doesn’t just include going to bars, playing video games and/or meeting girls. A man will have goals in his life and will work hard for those goals.

If the girl recognizes that you have direction and in your life and are focused on this direction, she will become impressed that you are one of the few men who actually knows what he wants. You can also take this direction to relationships. If you know what you want in a girl and a relationship, the girl will be more attracted to you then someone who is iffy about everything from his life to his relationships. Be in control of your life by being a man.

Be true to yourself

It’s pretty easy to spot someone who isn’t true to himself. You see it all the time from guys who try to look tough, be a playboy, or act pseudo-intellectual. The guys who try to play parts without being fully congruent with that character are often seen as unnatural and out of touch with reality. We say this over and over again, but you don’t have to be Brad Pitt or Beckham to get a smoking hot girl to be attracted to you. All you need to do is be congruent with yourself and be confident with who you are. However, you need to understand that this doesn’t mean that a guy who plays video games all day at the expense of exercising or socializing should expect to get the hottest girl in the club. In this example, this guy has failed rule number one (being a man) and will likely have trouble figuring out how to impress a girl.

Even with this being said, a guy who is 100% congruent with his personality of a video game nerd will likely have a better chance of attracting a girl than a guy who is attempting to be a playboy while only being 20% congruent with this personality. Girls can get subtle clues through the way you walk and talk that will instantly let them know whether or not you believe in yourself and are congruent with your character.

Don’t be a car salesman

A major trap that most guys fall into when becoming first attracted to a girl is that they begin to focus all their attention on that girl. The unfortunate aspect of this is that the girl will lose attraction for you if you go overboard with this attention. Just like a car salesman who won’t leave you alone, a guy who is giving too much attention to a girl will give out signs that he is desperate and that he is trying to unload something (himself) that isn’t worth what the girl has to offer (herself). Sticking with the car salesman example, the reason why CarMax has been so successful is because the salespeople are laid-back and aren’t desperate for a sale.

They list their prices on the car windows and they stick with those prices (are 100% congruent with their prices). They don’t try to play games and know their car’s value. Act like a CarMax salesman rather than a stereotypical car salesman to show that you believe in your value and don’t need to jump through hoops to sell yourself.
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I know that a lot of guys out there who first get exposed to the “game” get overly excited and want to go out there and test out all the cool routines that they just learned and master all the funky new lines to say to women – that work.

I’m not saying that this is a bad thing, by all means, please do this, it’s very healthy and I encourage you to do so.

However, I want to stress the fact that you need to not forget about the most important aspect of seduction and dating.

What I’m referring to is that most men get into this dating and seduction game, NOT because they can’t meet and seduce attractive and quality women, but it’s due to another reason…

Rather, they get into this because they have an inner emptiness that they are unable to fulfill and they believe that the only way to fulfill it is to get laid and have a lot of sex with a lot of women.

What I’m talking about is that a lot of men out there seem to forget that learning about seduction and dating is part of the overall picture of SELF HELP.

Yet, many of these guys FORGET that dating is just ONE aspect of your ENTIRE life.

I recently got an email from a member who purchased my dating guide and told me that he has bought everything out there on the market and has more than enough approaching experience under his belt.

In fact, he told me that he has approached more than 1700 times.

I was thinking “wow, 1700 times, you must be an approaching master” till he told me that he STILL could not succeed with women.

It then struck me.

This guy was so caught up in all the “outer game” all the routines and pickup lines that were suppose to make him better to be able to present himself in a way that females would like.

However, he was “empty” on the inside and even using these routines and techniques he was NOT able to succeed with women.

Why?

Because he was lacking the most vital and critical aspect to do with dating.

He was lacking the “self improvement” aspect.

He told me that once women got to know him a little better, they wouldn’t come out for another meeting.

He kept wondering what was happening.

Having not met the guy, I could only offer my preliminary piece of assessment and determine that he was doing two things. He was firstly, making women feel way too uncomfortable during the initial encounter and secondly, during that encounter he was giving off “creepy” vibes.

So in essence he went from being a total failure too afraid to approach women.

To being able to be called an “approach master” , but still failed to succeed with women.

Why?

Because he forgot to work on himself.

He forgot that the dating games and routines that are taught and strategies he implemented, only served as a TOOL to better display his OWN personality in a way that women like and find attractive.

However, if he had NOTHING to display in terms of his own personality, then he would just give women that he was a creepy guy with no real substance.

So I hope you remember, the reason why you’re learning about seduction and dating should be about improving yourself as a person OVERALL. You should not use the strategies and methods as a crutch and rely on them blindly, because at the end of the day, they should only help to serve demonstrate who you really are.

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I know that there are a lot of guys out there with the mentality “oh she’s too ugly, I’m not going to talk to her” and then wonder why on earth they are unable to get laid at all, let alone with the attractive ones.

The reason for this is because the guys who have this sort of thinking live life with the wrong kind of attitudes.

This how they think: “she’s too ugly for me, so I’m not going to even bother since I don’t want to sleep with her”.

But what they don’t realize is that ugly women, all have HOT friends.

Also, most of the time the guys like this have poor social skills around people in general and not just women and therefore they are just annoying to talk to or irritable to be around. So, not only do they turn women off, they are a repellant for all kinds of people regardless of gender.

But what’s the quickest way to improve your social skills?

SOCIALIZING!

By actively refusing to talk to and make friends with ugly and fat girls, they are limiting their ability to progress and advance in terms of communicating with the opposite sex.

I must admit, prior to learning the seduction arts, I always ignored the fat girls or ugly ones who gave me some attention.

However, let me tell you, there’s no quicker way to get the attention of OTHER women, if you have women already around you.

The way that I was able to improve on my dating skills and abilities at the start was to stop snobbing ugly girls in my life. In fact, I started talking to EVERYONE, both MEN and WOMEN of ALL ages and races.

What this allowed me to do was dramatically improve the way that I was able to communicate and interact with people which further set the foundations to become a very personable person that was popular with ALL people in general and not just women.

There was a very interesting by product after this experience.

The result was after I was able to talk to the ugly and fat girls, and they started to like me and enjoy my presence, I would signal to them or give them hints that I was not interested in them sexually.

Most guys at this stage would think to themselves “so you made a bunch of ugly girls like you, but you’re NOT going to sleep with them? So what’s the point?”

Well let me tell you what happened..

All these ugly and fat girls, started introducing me as “the super nice guy, who you just have to meet” to their super hot friends.

Oh, and did I say that there’s no better wingman (or wingwomen for that matter) than a raving girl talking about how nice and sweet you are to her friend.

I mean, money can’t even buy you the kind of endorsements and positive compliments your fat/ugly winggirl will give you to her hot friends.

Then after that, her hot friends will actively WANT to get to know you without you needing to do anything much at all.

So this is why you need to be nice to everyone, not just girls, but be EXTREMELY nice to the girls that normally get no attention.

But having said that, once you are introduced to the hot girls by the ugly ones, you still need to know exactly what to say in order for them to be attracted to you. Sure, you get an opening an the process is a bit easier to get to know the hot girls if her friends introduced you… but you still need to know the step by step process and exact things to say and do at the right time for them to want to sleep with you.  That’s why I recommend you check out the Supernatural Seduction System. This is the systematic step by step field tested and proven seduction manual that will make sure you know what to do AFTER you get introduced to hot girls… Click here to try the Supernatural Seduction System for $1!