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Stop scaring women away on Facebook! (Also Sexy Profile Pics)

Stop scaring women away on Facebook! (Also Sexy Profile Pics)

Posted on 09. Jul, 2011 by in Dating Tips For Men, Internet Dating Tips For Men

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I was on Facebook the other day and one of my female friends commented to me about how many Facebook stalkers she has.

Now, being the type of guy who likes to laugh at stupid behaviour of other men when trying to pick up girls, I asked her what were the most common characteristics of a Facebook stalker.

After a detailed conversation, this is what I concluded. Please, if you find yourself doing any of the below, stop right now and stop scaring away women.

The top 3 signs of a Facebook stalker:

1. They comment way too often - Most Facebook stalkers seem to forget the fact that everyone else, including random people they don’t know can see that they are commenting on the girls profile. If they do it enough it sends a sure fire signal to the girl and her group of friends that this guy is really desperate and needy. The worst thing about this is, women in general like to gossip and see how their female friend’s are doing online. If they see too many comments from a particular guy, then all hell breaks loose from there. So to proven this, it’s simple. Send a PRIVATE MESSAGE with a catchy headline to avoid being seen as a stalker.

2. They comment on photos that are REALLY OLD – One thing she also told me was that she would get comments on her photos that were posted 2 years ago. Most of the time, she would have forgotten that her photos even existed! So to make the situation even worse, they would say something really retarded like “oh wow you look so pretty here” or “hey I love your smile”. This to me was insanely funny, but to her it was a major turn off. So what’s the solution? Don’t post on super old photos. It gives the girls the impression that the guy has been sitting there for hours clicking through her photos one by one, and manually browsing through her hundreds of past photos taken years ago.

3. They update their status way too much - this is one big mistake that I noticed that a lot of immature men do. They seem to act like women and can’t stop updating their Facebook profile statuses with what they are doing at the moment. This signals to the women in their friend’s list that this guy has nothing else to do and really is acting to trivial – just like a girl. So what’s the solution? Don’t update your status more than once a day MAXIMUM.

Now, this has got me really thinking.

Facebook is a great avenue for people to meet and connect with people.

So in other words, it’s also fantastic for dating. That’s why it’s important for men to learn how to really understand how the female mind works and not scare away women when trying to get to know them online.

I have included some pictures of the type of sexy women that you could potentially get if you knew how to approach properly online… Mind you some of these are photoshopped and edited, but I have met some truly gorgeous women online (I have also met some who are butt ugly as well).

I have a great buddy of mine who has an awesome course on picking up girls on Facebook. It’s probably the only guide out there that teaches you step by step what to do in order to get girls to message you back. If you really want to know how to date on Facebook, then you can check it out here. I think he’s giving it to you for FREE at first (or something like a $1 trial)… I forgot the details, but check it out here:

Online Pickup Secrets

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3 Responses to “Stop scaring women away on Facebook! (Also Sexy Profile Pics)”

  1. HTSND 939 KHTZ FM

    12. Oct, 2011

    FOR DJ’S, CLUB PROMOTORS, and FAN PAGES:

    Question: What if you have a DJ / FAN page? What are the rules for posting / promoting on those types of page without “lowering your value” and appearing bored?

    By the way; As far as the updating status thing, I find that a bit questionable in certain situations because I have this one Producer/Promoter who updates his status LITERALLY 24/7 with nonstop funny one liners (mixed in with a few club/guestlist promotions every now and then). ALL DAY, ALL NIGHT – status, status, status! 2pm, 6pm,… 12 -1 – 3,4am…etc. The funny thing is not only does he get many women to comment on many of them, but he also has hundreds of (recent) pics from various venues and places in the US with different beautiful girls of various cultures and people. I believe I saw 50 Cent and Rihanna or somebody of that nature in a few of them… This guy I’m talking about did produce a style of dance music, with one song in particular making it to top 40 regional play in the later 90′s (this gives you an idea of his age). Not sure where he’s finding all that material he’s posting either, but they are (seemingly) mainly original stuff.

    So, this leads me to question if his constant status updates and some girls asking him how he’s always on fb all day are still hurting him, and to what degree.
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    In addition to this, there is another guy (Dj) who also constantly updates his status as well, but with statuses geared towards relationships, women, how woman think, and what women want (from a woman’s point of view). He tends to get a lot of supportive and “you are so always reading my mind right now lol” comments. Sometimes, however, he just gets a few likes.

    Are any of these people exceptions and are they being appropriate? Both are currently single. However, one has super high social and celebrity social proof- but also seems to be on facebook 24/7!

    And what are the rules for we dj’s who post and promote Dj Mixes by posting…. well, mixes? I’ve developed a new mandatory rule for myself – no more than 3 posts a day, TOTAL.

    1. Only statuses that I truly believe is very likely to be responded to in some way.
    2. A new dj mix
    3. A promotion (if necessary)

    If I do all three on one day, then the next day I will do nothing unless I really have to. I treat my fan page in somewhat of a similar matter….

    Before, I was doing some MAJOR mess ups, or status update rule breakings because not only was I a “clown”, but I updated silly things all throughout the day and night (some of it being very cocky and edgy material). The twist here, though, is that over 85% of those funny/catchy “promo status updates” had links that led you to a site, but you didn’t know it was a link to my site until you actually clicked on it and heard the music playing. No, I’m not making any excuses here or justifying it because I know I was f*****g up BIG time for many months when it came to DHV (although it did work at getting people to explore the site). I did stop. However, I did not resort to doing what everybody else does, which is “Check out this cool mix” and other boring generic advert posts.

    LASTLY, for those this reply comment may help; WHen I say I stopped doing the wrong things, I didn’t just stop. I actually “disappeared” for about a week or two, THEN came back with my “new style” where I no longer update status frequently or post too many silly comments. I call it a “sequence interrupter”, where I disappear for a while, give people time to forget, then come back with a NEW first impression by doing all the right things right and discontinuing the old crap I used to do (in any situation with women). I will wait at least a few more weeks to months before I get back to (fully) leaving comments and stuff on other girls profiles.

    It’s also a good idea to go back and delete any silly comments you’ve left on people’s pages/pics that you can remember, regardless of whether or not they were compliments! The more pictures they have and the more guys they have commenting, the less they’ll notice your comment has disappeared on any particular photo. The goal here is to not have dumb things around to remind them that you are / were a silly clown (or in most other people’s cases, one of those 100′s of people who all talked about how hot she was).

    Hopefully this helps a few people who use facebook a little differently and wonder what to do in “other situations”.

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  2. HTSND 939 KHTZ FM

    12. Oct, 2011

    As a matter of fact, I’m not even going to do my “3 posts maximum” (1 witty update, 1 dj mix, and 1 promo) a day rule. I think I’ll just post Saturday & Sunday’s during highest online peak times for status updates and promotions (and NO posts on weekend nights!), then not post again until Wednesday, then back to weekend again.

    That’s enough.

    Same with fan page.

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  3. admin

    12. Oct, 2011

    If you own a business, such as the one you own, it’s a little different. A status update in that situation makes you look like you’re business is doing well as there are new things happening, especially with DJ gigs. You won’t look like a fool for updating it all the time because you have a REAL REASON to do so.

    You’re not there trying to get attention as a bored guy. You’re a man with something happening in his life, and since you run DJ gigs, you’re “cool” in the eyes of most girls.

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